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            <h1 style="display: none">读《成事心法》Part1</h1>
            
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              <p>我为什么要读这本书，因为看中了书名“成事”二字，心里纠结着到底要不要买这本书。为何纠结呢，因为我还没看完《孙子兵法》，一本书没看完就去看另一本书，这种就像猴子搬苞谷，看到啥就搬啥，搬啥也漏啥。</p>
<p>但我最后还是从同事手里拿来看了，这还是另一个同事离职时转赠给他的，被我给截胡了。看这本书我是带有目的的，希望能通过这种方法论让自己能成事，持续成事，持续成大事。</p>
<p>第一章讲的是<code>知己</code>，想在想想，我真到了解自己吗？能够掌控自己的情绪吗？能够平衡工作和生活吗？</p>
<h3 id="成大事无捷径"><a href="#成大事无捷径" class="headerlink" title="成大事无捷径"></a>成大事无捷径</h3><p>在成大事无捷径篇，作者反复提到成名无需太早，成名太早，有可能会影响将来的后劲。</p>
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<p>工作是场马拉松，有可能你要拿十年，二十年看待，给自己一个学习，实践的过程。你以为懂了，很有可能你还没有真懂，让你迅速上位之后，你德不配位，你会被这个位子，被自己的名声累坏。</p>
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<p>在快节奏的今天，多数人都是浮躁的，看到机会就上，往往却忽略了德是否配位。你的品行德行配不配的上你的位置，自己几斤几两要搞清楚，弄明白。</p>
<p>曾国藩曾说过：“凡是皆用困知勉行功夫，不可求名太骤，求效太捷也”。做事，应该慢慢来做，努力来做，知道这件事情很难，一点一点去克服，不能求成名太早，也不能一味求快。就拿换工作这事儿来说，从毕业到现在，你跳过几次槽，换过几家公司，在每家公司呆了多久，当然如果你碰到坑人的公司那就另说，说到底也怪你当初没擦亮眼镜。为什么HR不愿招段时间内跳槽多的人，因为他们浮躁，不稳定，会给企业增加一定的风险。</p>
<p>路漫漫其修远兮，自己的职业道路才刚刚开始，静下心来，戒掉浮躁，走慢点，走稳点。</p>
<h3 id="掌控情绪"><a href="#掌控情绪" class="headerlink" title="掌控情绪"></a>掌控情绪</h3><p>在工作中，我自认为我情绪管理的还不错，直到在项目提测时，产品提出要修改需求。我当时内心万马崩腾（想问候他家大爷！），尽管刻意抑制，但我能明显的感觉到别人能从我此刻的面部表情中看到我的心理，还是修行不够，历练不够。每次到下班时，有bug来了，我都不由得心慌起来，还是不够镇定，大不了下楼吃个饭，晚上继续搞，没啥大不了的。这种心慌情绪，特别在项目提测当天尤为明显，千万别来bug，千万别来bug，千万别来bug，重要的事说三遍！可是该来的还是来，并不会因为你叫他别来，他就不来，所以焦虑的心绪并不会改变结果，只是徒增烦恼罢了。</p>
<p>在书中掌控情绪篇，我并没有学到一定的方法论，但是我对这句话印象特别深刻：“要把愤怒当成一个要克服的难题，心跟上，身体也就快了”。要珍惜每一次愤怒的机会，因为每一次愤怒都是对自身心态的考验，如果能这样想，那倒是能消火不少。</p>
<p>如有朝一日我能达到“临事静对猛虎，事了闲看落花”的境界，何愁不成事，何愁不成大事。</p>
<h3 id="得志行天下，不得志则多读书"><a href="#得志行天下，不得志则多读书" class="headerlink" title="得志行天下，不得志则多读书"></a>得志行天下，不得志则多读书</h3><p>要说我大学期间最大的遗憾是什么，那就是没有多读书，回过头来看，自己大学期间读的书屈指可数，才导致现如今的我精神境界如此匮乏，身上还是这么油腻俗气。现如今我想做出改变，得志行天下，不得志则能独善其身。要想独善其身，方法就是要多读书。“书中自有颜如玉，书中自有千钟粟”，书不仅能带来精神愉悦，还能为成事做好必要的准备。</p>
<p>在书中看到一幅对联：</p>
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<p>时间数百年旧家无非积德，天下第一件好事还是读书</p>
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